The great Charlie Brown commented on what it meant to have a good day. “I know it’s going to be a good day when all the wheels on my shopping cart turn the same way.”
Don’t you love it when you get the one cart that has one wheel that is not aligned?
If ever we need our wheels aligned, it is in marriage. I heard about one couple who could never get aligned with their schedule. Bob called his wife from work in the middle of the afternoon. “I’m able to get two tickets for the show we wanted to see. It’s playing now. Do you want to go?”
Martha answered, “Oh, yes! I’ll get ready right away!”
“Perfect,” said Bob. “The tickets are for tomorrow night.”
Another couple was not aligned. The Vermont farmer was sitting on the porch with his wife. He looked over at her and thought about all the ways she had blessed him in 42 years of marriage.
Then he spoke, “Wife, you’ve been such a wonderful woman that there are times when I can hardly keep from telling you.”
To have a really great marriage, we need all wheels headed the same way. Then it is okay to tell your spouse you love them. Read the Song of Solomon, in the Bible. You will find a modern romance story. You will find two mates whose carts are fully aligned.